It has been about 10 years since I graceful bowed out of the intense commercialism of the Christmas Holidays. I was going through a divorce and reevaluating my finances as a single woman. When it dawned on me that Christmas is expensive, and it would benefit me greatly to skip buying presents. During the Thanksgiving Holiday, I made the announcement to my inner circle that Christmas was not in the budget. I apologized if anyone would be disappointed and stated that I would reconsider it later. My inner circle was kind. They stated that I had been more than gracious over the years, and I add so much more to their lives than Christmas gifts.
Although I was not shopping, I desired to visit the Malls and shopping centers. It was wonderful. Instead of frantically searching for gifts, I was calmly strolling. I admired the decorations that I obviously overlooked for years. I sat on a bench near Santa’s Village and laughed hysterically at the pictures being snapped. The sleeping babies, crying toddlers, family portraits, the tidying of hair and clothes, and all the preparation that goes into the perfect picture was entertaining. So entertaining that I visited all the Santa Villages near me for the sheer delight.
Christmas carols, candy canes, trees, wreaths, nativity scenes, and the Spirit of Christmas became alive. I visited neighboring towns Christmas Tree Lighting Festivals. Enjoying apple cider, train rides with my great godson, and huddling with the inner circle for body heat. I traveled to highly publicized light shows and gazed at the millions of lights in awe. Volunteered at Toys for Tots drives, attended fundraisers, banquets, and charitable benefits. Never did I ever imagine all that I was missing from Black Friday to December 24th. Because my full attention was placed on my Christmas List.
Needless- to- say, I never returned to my annual Christmas List. I found something so much more fulfilling. Not only does the Spirit of Christmas make my heart smile; it has added adventure to my life as I search for new ways to enjoy it.
