Have you ever realized a person’s true identity after you have committed to them? As if being fooled was not enough, you also notice they have the potential to be reckless, and possibly even dangerous. No worries, cut off their supply and you won’t have to leave them, they will leave you.
What is the supply? The supply attracted them to you. So, cut off the supply. It stops the attraction, and they will leave. For example, if the attraction was:
- A physical attraction, then stop having sex.
- A financial attraction, then stop giving them money.
- An attraction to luxuries, then stop buying them gifts.
- A need for your encouraging word, then stop speaking positively to them.
When you stop supplying their needs, they will leave you. But you will become the bad guy. They try to destroy your character, add financial and mental stress, become rebellious, have tantrums, threaten, and may physically violate, but continue to cut them off and eliminate them from your life.
Ironically, they need you, but somehow twisted your mind into thinking you needed them. And you fell for it, but you don’t have to remain in a fallen state. Get up, wise up, and snatch back your control, powers, and essence of you.
There is no shame, no harm, and no foul. A little embarrassment now is a small price to pay for the peace that will return to your life when they are gone. Cut off the supply, learn the lesson, and carry on with your life.
